Rise Above Like The Sun

How do you deal with vindictive, petty people that are full of hatred?

Simple, don't.
Don't react to them, don't let them get to you and don't stoop down to their low level to do the same.

Good will always triumph over evil.
Let them win the small insignificant battles, but you have to win the great war at the end.

Don't let your guard down and more importantly do not trust a word they say no matter how friendly they may seem.
Just a wolf hiding under sheep's skin. Let them think that they have fooled you, or got the best of you. Let them be the ultimate fool.
Be smarter and wiser. Learn the rules and guidelines and use it to your advantage.

These horrible monsters are everywhere you go. Who do they hate?
Anybody that are happy. Anybody that have more then them or has something they want. Everybody.
You'll spot these evil and cruel monsters instantly. They hate everyone, they always talk badly about others behind their backs but will be nice to them in person, they complain about everything and they can't see eye to eye with others because they think their way is the only way. They'll step on whoever they need to, to get to the top. They'll tear down anybody that they think is above them. They use negative names to refer to people (ex. Retard, fatty, etc)
They have too much ego and pride to ever admit they are wrong or to apologize.

Stay clear of them, don't let them toxify your beautiful kind soul with their bitterness.

What can you do to stop them?
Show them kindness, light the way for these dark lost souls. Pray that one day they'll find inner peace and learn to truly love themselves.

Well, I got quite a war ahead of me. After being nothing but nice and kind to this dark unfortunate soul, they decided to stab me in the back. This is what I get. I got fooled, everything was just an act on their side. But I don't ever repeat my mistakes twice.
Lesson out of that: now I know to be extra careful and on high alert.

With God by my side, my incredible inner strength, my stubborn nature, my determination, and my drive to never back down, will be my ultimate weapon in this great war.

Oh hunny, you're fighting a war that you just can't and won't win.

- JustBeYou

Fight Like Your Life Depends On It

Hopefully this can be relatable to anybody reading...
Ever ended up in a situation that put you or something you care about it in a threat?
Well ladies and gents, I think I have been dragged into one. I have to admit, this isn't the best time for this to be happening. But then again, life likes to do whatever it likes.

Don't let anybody, especially bitter, petty, and vindictive people threaten your peace or happiness. Some people like to hate, hate anybody that's happier then them, hate anybody that has more then them, hate anybody that is different then them. Hate, blackens the heart and empties a soul into nothing.
Don't let these toxic people win, in any sort of way.

What am I going to do? I guess the only thing I really can do;
- keep my head held high
- ignore it, not let it get to me
- be the better and bigger person
- pray.
I believe strongly in Karma. I'm not going to stoop to that pathetic level of low to get even. It's not worth my time. I know, at the end of the day, no matter what happens, Karma will have my back (it has been so far, never failed me yet)

I have faith, that whatever is meant to be in my life will come or stay and whatever is not meant to be, it'll leave.

Wisdom is knowing when to fight back and when to let it take it's course.
Humanity is knowing everybody (including ones self) isn't perfect. Created with flaws and stitched with imperfections. But never punishing or torturing someone for it.

Life, is like a chess game. You're going to have to lose a few of the pieces to win the game at the end. Lose the small battles but win the great war.

People that are full of hatred, greed, envy and vengeance will never go very far in life. Forever stuck on a deserted island.
Their goal in life is to tear apart and destroy the ones who are happy and living their life with content.

Never let these type of toxic people disturb your inner peace or your happiness.

-JustBeYou

Believe

If you're at a point in your life where you feel defeated, lost or hopeless.
BELIEVE.
Believe that better is just around the corner. Believe that the current situation is only temporary. Believe in yourself most importantly.
Life does not give you anything that you cannot handle.

I've been going through a phase recently. That had me kind of down and feeling like I was in a vicious trap. But I took a moment and reminded myself my "I believes".

- I believe I deserve better then this
- I believe all my hard work and perseverance will pay off
- I believe in due time I will achieve one of my biggest dreams
- I believe I deserve this (referring to something personal)
- I believe I am more then good enough
- I believe whatever that is meant to happen in my life, will.
- I believe that real love is out there and still obtainable

-------------------------------
I know my biggest lesson to learn is patience. I really suck at waiting for something good.
And letting go of my fears so it doesn't prevent me from missing out on something potentially great.
Like everybody in this world, I have fears to. Typical fears, nothing out of the ordinary.

It is when you step out of your comfort zone, you'll achieve something much greater.
I know, God is with me every step I take. I know he wouldn't steer me wrong. I trust that this, will work out.
I will not have doubts, I will not fear the road ahead. With a blindfold on I will walk down the path that God put in front of me.
~
I truly hope, you're on my pathway. I feel something so strong with You, I don't even know how to explain it into words. I am sure, you're meeting a lot of beautiful and smart girls along your way. I want to prove to You, I am so much more then what you see. Much deeper and wiser then the rest. I want to tell you my full story. I feel like you'll understand and appreciate it too.
~
My biggest fear is disappointment. 
There's many hidden scars you cannot see. There are many wounds that are still healing. I've walked many paths and been through many difficult battles and wars.
I can tell you one thing, I'm not like the rest. I'm not meant for everybody. I'm not complicated but I'm not simple either. I'm not a bitch, I don't have a bad attitude but I'm not a pushover either.
I'm not naive, I'm not a fool. But I do give people the benefit of the doubt.
I did not walk down an easy road. I came across many hurricanes, tornadoes and earthquakes along the way. Fought the toughest thugs, climbed the highest mountain and swam the deepest sea. But my journey isn't over yet. My story is still being written.
And I want you to be a part of it. In a beautiful kind of way.
I have high standards but I don't ask for much. I have trust issues and am guarded but I'm not afraid to try and try again till I get it right.
I'm "what you see, is only a small part of what you get".
Don't be scared, I don't bite .
I'm just strong. I'm not a princess. I'm a warrior.
I'm not a damsel in distress, because nobody was there when I needed them. So, I became my own hero.
I want a partner. The king to the queen. Side by Side, kicking a lot of ass along the way to victory.
It's a tough battle by myself, would love another great warrior by my side.❤

- JustBeYou

Moments Like This

Everybody has probably been through this, making the same mistake over and over. You don't want to, and you try not to but yet it's like a curse. Never-ending.

Well folks, I'm going through that horrible, nightmare of a cycle. Trying to be conscience so I don't keep repeating the same mistake but yet, I become a bumbling idiot and can't seem to think before I speak.

The saying of "if you want something you never had, you have to do something you've never done before", I wonder how true that is. Life is short, not to take risks but what if all the previous times you've taken that risk has failed? Of course, one would be scared to take another risk like that again.

I've decided to leave it to fate. If it's meant to happen, and it's in my destiny (life story) then I'm sure it'll find a way of working out. Otherwise, it was not meant for me. Learning to let go of wanting to control everything and know the outcomes before hand. Learning not to worry and stress out over something that might not be meant for me. Learning to realize, to just let life do it's thing and to go with the flow.

Yes, I would be very disappointed and sad if I found out this isn't meant for me and it can't be (for whatever reasons). But I have to accept the fact and knowledge of; if it doesn't work out then there will be something better. Always got to keep a positive and open mindset.

Just Be You

Strive, Persist and Try

"Nothing worth having comes easy "

Don't be afraid to work hard for what you want. Sometimes the results won't show right away and it'll manifest into something greater later on.
Never stop trying, just because you get a no, doesn't mean it's a defeat. It's life telling you, " try again".
If you want it bad enough, keep knocking on that door.
Persistent goes a long way.

"You need rain to get the rainbow "

No matter how many times life knocks you down, get back up. The more you do it, the easier it gets. Life will always be full of ups and downs. It will throw lemons at you, so you can keep making lemonade or make a lemon meringue pie, lemon tart, lemon cheesecake and so forth.
Life, isn't easy, so enjoy the good times, cherish the moments and create lasting memories. Life isn't about the destination but about the journey. Opportunities are not handed to you, you got to go find it or create it.

Sorry, if this post is full of static sentences. It's just thoughts and lessons I wanted to share. I know there are tons of people out there feeling defeated, depressed, unmotivated or inadequate.
Nobody can force you to feel better. Nobody can make you feel better. Fight to see the better days. You have to choose to feel better. Don't let anybody make you feel or think you're inadequate. You are not less then anybody else, you are more then good enough and have the potential to achieve all your dreams. But it starts with you.
In every negative or bad situation there is a positive side to it. It's you're choice to find it and see it or not to. No matter how bad it may appear, there is good that'll come out from it. Sometimes it's a lesson that you needed to learn. Sometimes it's a gateway to meet people that you need in your life. Or its life's way of telling you, "this is not for you". Find the positive. I guarantee there always is.

To anybody that's having a bad day or bad luck. Keep your chin up. Hold your head up high. The toughest battles are given to the strongest soldiers. Don't be ashamed of your emotional scars, be proud, for they're your battle scars. Everything that happens in your life is either a lesson you can pass on to another or a cherished memory you'll keep with you forever or a story you can tell to inspire and give hope to others.

Just Be You.

Goals Will Be Achieved!

Yippie!! Received some good news!
The waiting game is officially over! I got the job.
I was looking for something to replace my current part time job at Rogers Arena. Like I mentioned in a previous post, somewhere where I can get more hours. And I have found it.
It was also with a heavy heart I had to resign from Rogers Arena.
*But if there is anybody out there looking for a part time job to work around a busy schedule (if you're a student or work full time already) then Rogers Arena is perfect. Shifts are scattered throughout the month, so it's very flexible and workable.

There will be a lot of people I am going to miss. Of course J* is going to be one of the top 5 people I will miss dearly. It's sad to think I won't ever see him again, well at least not at the arena. I was looking forward to the start of next season, for the reason of seeing him again. But I am sure, we will run into each other elsewhere, outside of the arena.
But as of right now, I have to so what I have to do, to reach my goal by March 2017. It's very exciting to think that in just 7-8 months, I will be purchasing my first place. And become a first time home buyer!!!!!!

I look back on my life, and look at where I was once to where I am today. Life may threw a lot of obstacles along my way, but as I was getting older, I became stronger and more determined.
I used to be the type of person who gave up easily, if things were getting too hard or too difficult.
And the one BIG lesson I have learned is, never give up. Even if one door closes, or you get repetitive "No's", got to keep going, and keep trying. Life doesn't reward people who sit back and do nothing, life rewards people who try and work hard.

Failure is just a stepping stone to success. You have to know how to fail to be able to do better the next time around.
And you don't need to do what other people want you to do. You don't need to go down the same path as everybody else, because it's safe.
You can create your own path, and stray from the pack. But remember, if you're going to do that, just know it will be a tougher journey, with way more obstacles and struggles. And you have to believe in yourself and your abilities. Then, the reward will be that much greater.

And to all, who are going through their own life journey, never compare your life to another, it'll only make you unhappy. And never forget to be thankful for what you do have and not complain about what you don't have.

Just Be You!

The Waiting Game

Does anybody else hate the "waiting game"?
I hate waiting around for the phone call. I feel so unproductive just sitting and waiting by the phone.
I don't want to have my hopes up and EXPECT a phone call. But then at the same time, I don't want to think negatively and have doubts.
I mean, I am confident I did well, and it went well. At least from my perspective....
The waiting game, starts to just add stress on top of stress. The unknown, the unanswered, and the anticipation for the result/outcome.

All my hard work, and all of my sacrifices... please tell me it's all going to be rewarded.

Anybody else feeling the gloominess of the weather lately?
It's supposed to be July, where has our summer weather disappeared to?
One day, it's sunny and super hot. The next day, it's cold, windy and raining hard.
In some ways that's just like life. You'll have the good days, that'll put a smile on your face and give you fond memories to look back on in the future. And you'll have bad days, the ones you don't want to ever relive, or remember and wish to erase it from your memories.

*****************************HOCKEY NEWS***********************************
Many of you may already know this. But the Florida Panthers, recently signed Reimer, goaltender from San Jose Sharks, before that played on Toronto Maple Leafs. And the reason why they signed a goalie, is because apparently, Roberto Luongo got injured during the end of the last season and has to get surgery. He'll be missing at least the first half of the next season. (Yes, it saddens me to know that, Roberto Luongo will be absent from Panthers games until at least Jan 2017/)
*******************************************************************************

Anybody else, going through some stress in their life? Either to do with love life, work life, or in general?
Hang in there soldiers, I'm in the same boat as you. And we'll surely get through this rocky storm as long as we don't give up and keep on moving forward.

Just Be You!